The "Good Parent" vs. the "Get-Real Parent"

This world is complicated and dangerous, many people die an unnatural death or get killed everyday. However, this world is also full of temptation by everything and anything around us. If we can't control ourselves good enough, we will easily fall into this giant "Pandora's box". To make a better world, teenagers should be positively educated by good parents. The definition of "good parents" to me, is teaching their children the positive and negative things in the world without showing them how to do. Because parents are always good examples to their children and they are also  first teachers of children. Before children go to school, children will do what their parents do without knowing right and wrong.

There are three important periods to teach a kid to me. First, it's teaches them the negative and positive things before they officially share their lives with other kids. Second, it's before a kid goes to a high school. Third, it's before a teenager go to a college. The most significant period is the last one because at that time, teenagers do have some concepts of right and wrong but they still don't understand them fully. Teenagers are not adults, they will be easily tempted by all kinds of temptation. That's why the last period is the period that most crimes happen and creates lots of fallen teenagers. Because teenagers are emotional and vulnerable, even if their parents don't use a good attitude to tell them, they will easily fall. It can explain that why is there some " good kids" go astray in alcoholism, doing drugs, or some other criminal behavior.

Parents should be responsible for their children.I believe that none parents want to see their children become fallen by one false idea. As a result, I suggest that before teenager goes to college, parents should sit down and talk to their kids kindly, seriously, and sincerely. If both parents do that, the kid will value the things might happen in the future more wisely. That is what " good parents" should do, be responsible to their children even when they are turning 18 and going to college.In my opinion, "get real parents" are parents that can take or afraid to take responsibility of their children. To possibly prevent children from being alcoholism is not showing them on yourselves or tell them how to do it responsibly but telling them and showing the damage from doing that.
People become more and more lawlessness these days, how should this society get better? By generation and generation, the kids get worse than parents but no one can help them. If there is a Christian president in the US, will the lawlessness people become fewer? Will the " get real parents" get fewer? Maybe parents can bear such a heavy burden for their children, but who should teach the teenagers? Will God do it for His child without every children putting faith in  Him?

The "Good Parents" vs. the "Get Real Parents"