Get married or not?

A marriage can not be valued by the ages of two people when they get married just like you can not determine a people is mature by his age. Marriage is not a party to celebrate two people can be together legally, it is also a serious ceremony of taking a deeper step to be independent, mature, and responsible to both own selves and society.

There are many reasons why people get married later than before. The first one I have to talk to is everything cost much more than before which means it costs more to raise a child than before. Get married also means to have a kid or kids, if the parents can't feed their kids why should they even get married? Many young couples can't even pay for themselves, their parents pay for their everything and it will be the same when they get married. It's not the couples raising the kids but their parents. I believe parents want their children to have a good livelihood and to get a good education but all of those cost a lot so most of the young couples can't afford those when they just graduate from colleges.

Secondly, young people don't want to lock themselves in being pregnant and feeding kids everyday, they want to have more fun after all the studies. However, the study never ends. School education produces science genius but life education teaches you how to become a better person. We need to be educated both ways yet different people determine their lives differently. I understand those who spend most their young lives studying their careers for earning better money which might be prepared to get married but I'm more a type of person who would like to work hard with my husband to make money together for our own family and kids. Still, different people choose different lives styles. 

In a conclusion, early marriage is and will affect our community. What should be worried and
questioned about should not be people get married later but how to solve the problem when the causes of people get married so late.  People around me get married right after colleges or even stop going to colleges but they still live good lives. Those who get married early should learn together, grow up together, take care of each other, and teach their kids good. Those who decide to get married later should be more mature, have a better livelihood for their future, so this world will be not that mess up like those wanderers think likely.